Marriage Intensive
Transform your Relationship
in Just a Few days!
Get closer faster with our “roll up your sleeves”, one-on-one intensive, specifically designed to address your relationship struggles.
WhAT IS A marriage intensive?
Put simply, a marriage intensive is one long, intensive, couples therapy session (often over multiple days) vs. 1 hour a week for many months. It’s short term and allows couples to get resolution faster. Marriage intensives are private, one-on-one sessions with a couples therapist and that teaches you to repair conflict, deal with fear, let go of resentment, rejuvenate sex & intimacy, establish boundaries and expectations and more.
WHo's it for?
A marriage intensive is for people who want change in their relationship to happen fast. Whether you’re in a painful situation, want to learn communication tools, or if you’re on the brink of divorce, marriage intensives help you get the root of your struggles while giving you the tools you need to move forward.
Marriage intensives help To Rebuild...
Trust
Communication
Intimacy
Friendship
Connection
Breakthrough Relationship Blocks
How Does A marriage Intensive work?
First we’ll schedule a free 30-minute consultation. After it’s been determined that a marriage intensive is a good fit for, we’ll send you welcome packet to get you started!
step one
RELATIONSHIP ASSESSMENT
You’ll start the process prior to your in-person meeting by completing an extensive online assessment that provides your couples therapist an in-depth overview and analysis of your relationship challenges and strength.
step two
DAY ONE OF INTENSIVE
- You'll participate in a relationship deep dive that explores expectations, history, how you communicate + manage conflict.
- You'll have an opportunity to meet with your clinician alone to explore your history, attachment styles, and limiting beliefs.
- You'll learn about your unique pattern of relating + establish a path to healing, closeness + connection.
- You'll be taught 3 powerful tools to help you communicate your way through the toughest problems.
step three
DAY TWO OF INTENSIVE
- You'll each be invited to bring up an issued you'd like resolved,
- You'll practice skills learned from Day 1 to understand and learn the true cause of your disagreements.
- You'll learn how to recognize new ways of identifying when your partner is in emotional overwhelm, and what you can do to bring the connection back.
- You'll be given a plan to rebuild trust, stay connected, reduce harmful outbursts, + recognize your conflict patterns.
step four
MOMENTUM
Following your intensive, it’s important to keep the momentum going. You’ll get an opportunity to give feedback + make a plan for what may still feel unfinished.
You’ll be encouraged to follow our weekly format for connection, as well as a 30-day connection challenge.
Many couples choose to continue follow-up sessions with their clinician to maintain their progress.
Is A Marriage Intensive Right For You?
ON THE BRINK
You and your partner are making “should I stay” or “should I go” decisions.
regretable incident
There’s been a harmful incident, such as an affair, that you’re needing to heal from.
Endless Arguing
You need help communicating and you’re stuck in an endless loop that goes nowhere.
TIME REstricted
You want couples therapy but it’s so hard to find the time each week.
You want results fast
You’re impatient and want to transform your relationship quickly.
you want marriage maintenance
Your relationship is good…and you want to keep it that way + make sure nothing’s building up.
What's the difference between
Couples Therapy + A Marriage Intensive?
Marriage intensive:
- Quicker and faster results. What you're doing in 2 days typically takes 4 months in couples therapy.
- Allows you to get more out of each hour vs. a typical 1-hour couples therapy session that requires a debrief of your week and a recap of your session.
- Allows for bigger issues to open up knowing that there's time to process and unpack each situation.
- Gets deeper and more vulnerable due to the extra time to process pain, belief, and resentments.
- Allows time to practice communication tools and new skills between sessions.
- Allows you more time to process your feelings from session to the next.
- Provides weekly or monthly accountability to ensure you don't back into old patterns.
- Helps you with new issues that might arise.
- Allows time for homework if that's what you choose.
Learning + Experiencing
You'll Walk Away With Tools For a Lifetime!
Each marriage intensive is uniquely designed for you and your partner depending on what your treatment goals are. Here are some common takeaways:
- How listen so your partner feels heard
- How to talk without triggering your partner
- The art of compromising
- How to repair when feelings are hurt
- To rebuild trust and boundaries
- Identify resentments and go through the forgiveness process
- How to heal + forgive
- How to deepen your intimacy + increase affection
- Create a vision for your future
Using the tools provided, we teach couples to not only communicate their way through every problem, but to also get to the root cause of their struggles so that they don’t continue having the problems after the marriage intensive is over.
Choose your Own Adventure
Your Relationship Investment
One-time payment of
$1550
- 1-Day Marriage Intensive with a licensed clinician (7 hours)
- 1 Gottman Relationship Assessment
- 2 Marriage Intensive Workbooks
- BONUS: Heal + Forgive Workbook
- BONUS: The Relationship Reset Blueprint
- BONUS: 30-Day Connection Challenge
One-time payment of
$2997
- 2-Day Marriage Intensive with a licensed clinician (14 hours)
- 1 Gottman Relationship Assessment
- 2 Marriage Intensive Workbooks
- BONUS: Heal + Forgive Workbook
- BONUS: The Relationship Reset Blueprint
- BONUS: 30-Day Connection Challenge
Frequently Asked Questions
You've got questions? We have answers!
Marriage intensives are for any committed relationship. To be honest, we’d rather call it a couples intensive, but most people know it as “marriage intensive”, so that’s what we call it.
Do you want a relationship breakthrough in a short amount of time? Then it’s likely a marriage intensive is a good fit for you.
But, just to be sure…we do a FREE 30 minute consultation prior to signing up to make sure you and your partner are a good fit for our program. We can use this time to tailor your intensive to meet your individual needs, as well as answer any questions you might have.
Yes! We love couples of all shapes, sizes, + colors.
Of course! We LOVE marriage intensives because of how quickly we see transformations and breakthroughs happen; however, it’s not uncommon for couples to return and continue the deep work.
Many people prefer marriage intensives to couples counseling for a variety of reasons. We do, however, recommend at least one month between intensives in order to practice and let all your new skills absorb.
A marriage intensive is, well, just like it sounds, intense. For many couples, this is all they need to get back on track.
Other couples, depending on their situation, may need more help. These couples can expect to see immediate results, however, it may not be a “one-and-done” event.
Your marriage intensive clinician will be available for couples therapy sessions for those who want to work through additional issues or just want to maintain the momentum.
Marriage intensives can be done over more than one weekend but may be subject to the cost of a 1-day marriage intensive.
Nope! This is an individual, one-of-a-kind experience designed specifically for you and your relationship.
YES!
We can do in-person and virtual intensives. In-person sessions are held in our office where there is coffee, tea, water, and a refrigerator and microwave available to use.
If you are interested in a virtual intensive, please make sure you can be in a private room, free of distractions, and with a strong internet connection.
Marriage intensives need to be cancelled 7 days prior to the start of the intensive for a full refund. Because we have a wonderful clinician that has cancelled all of her other sessions to make room for your intensive, we’re sorry to report that cancellations within the 7 day period will charged the full amount.
Marriage intensives can be done online or in-person.
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