Your Relationship Needs A Reset
Please know, this is not as good as it gets! While things may seem fine sometimes, I know there are things boiling under there surface. You’re either finding yourself quick to anger, or just disconnected.
There may be some (or a lot) of resentment lurking under the surface, and you just don’t know how to fix it. You mostly avoid hard topic with the hope that things will just work themselves out-eventually.
It’s easy to think the path of least resistance is the way to go. People do this because they don’t want to upset their partner and just want to keep the peace. THIS IS A TRAP and IT WILL BACKFIRE.
Don’t worry, we can make this better. I’ve taken out all the guess work and created the EXACT conversation you need to have.
Finally! The one tool you need to heal your relationship now, not later!
The Relationship Reset Workbook
The step-by-step, simple conversation that walks you through how to RESET YOUR RELATIONSHIP so that you can start fresh and reconnect.
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Here are some tips to hold you over!
- When you're talking about something important, let your partner go first. Role model your amazing listening skills and remember that you're trying to break a pattern. This won't happen overnight?
- Mirror back EXACTLY what you hear your partner saying. NO INTERPRETATIONS!
- Validate their feelings EVEN if you don't agree. Feelings are never wrong.
- Empathize. Reflect their unsaid feelings back to them. EXAMPLE: "You must've felt so hurt and disappointed."
- List ItemNever apologize until your partner feels fully heard. If you apologize too early, you risk leaving behind part of the splinter.